sorry about your loss in your family. i kind of have the same problem with three items that i sold on ebay monday(01/25/10) all three items to the same guy and still has not payed? email him this morning and still no reply. i kept email nice:smile:. he also could of had a family loss or got injured?? who knows. i got time. it's just stuff i will never use and under $100 bucks. not going to get rich in the next day or two when he clicks his paypal........