Why grind the valves and not the tappets?
Valves are purposely longer when new for various reasons one of which is to bring them into spec in case something changes such as grinding and/or lapping.
Also, to remove tappets engine must be completely dissasembled. Not so with the valves. Simply remove head and breather. Everything is there that you need to get to.
You are (in effect) creating triple the work using your method.
By the time your 1 engine is finished...I've done 3.
Not too often that valve train needs any work to begin with. Unless I know specifically that there is a problem, I leave them alone.
"Don't fix what ain't broke."