Less mean? That's funny. This is the Internet, I have thick skin and don't really give a shit what you think. The kids wear their helmets which is what matters. I've lived a long life and don't think life as a stiff old crotchedy diaper wearing q tip is the way to go for me. So if the good lord calls I'm ready. But I have a feeling I will end up a q tip anyways.
Wear the damn brain bucket. There is no reason not to.
You dump a bike & lay your head open in front of the little ones while you're out riding, what do you think is going to go through their minds?
Dad's dead, brains & blood & tissue everywhere, etc. If that doesn't spell a traumatic childhood and an innate fear of bikes, I don't know what would.
Just wear the damn helmet.