have used water to push out a dent in a tank . its a long slow way but can be safely done if ya careful . dont fill it full and cap it youll pop it , start filling it with the cap off you want the tank to be full of ice when its done as in you keep adding little water and let it freeze . ones you have a idea how much the tank hold in ice . let it thaw and put in a little more water like a pop cap or so and cap it let it freeze . it will push out the dents a little and stop . then if you want more thaw and add a little more .you will have to get it to seal shut tho no vent in the cap . and remember a little goes a long long ways .
as for a filler in the dent if you look alot of plate shops use lead or other solder to fill in pits and copper over that to get a good base . if you have a shop your going to use call them and ask what kinds of filler they use or like to have on parts . then you can do the prep and just tell them what you have used to do it .
i have seen soldering flux that will tin chrome and not to $$$ marquet had some . maybe ruby fluid would work .
you would want a very soft flame as in weak small torch . think one of them 5$ pencil ones . as you want it to heat slowly so to give ya time to push the solder in and build it up in the low spots .