I had the same issue on a gokart a few years back with a brand new 13hp engine.... I always had oil dripping out of the vent on the pump and it was mounted higher than the pulse port so I tapped the intake and used that pulse, no more oil leak... any mist in the pulse will eventually build up in the pump and seep out..
I think you are blaming the location of the pump or the fitting,I do not believe this to be true. I used to though,But this is what I discovered.
The fuel pump diaphragm only moves about 1/8" .so on each stroke the pressure from the piston moving only sends a very short pulse in the hose then it stops at the end of the diaphragms stroke,the it returns on the up stroke of the piston. Now if you have excess crank case pressure it could lead to over working the diaphragm and blowing it out or make it leak. If that is the case you mite need a 2 nd vent.
The thing I do not like about a pulse taped into the intake is when you are full throttle it decreases pulse were as the crankcase is the opposite.